This is a story about the phone call you don’t want to ever
get. Also a good story about learning to keep cool. Earlier this week, I
strolled into the Consular section along with the Diplomat ready and eager to
do some ultra boring admin stuff and dish out some visas. 15 minutes into my
daily routine, which included getting nice hot green tea, chatting aimlessly
with my fabulous consular buddies and pondering the joys of my job, I got a
phone call from my house. I picked up and my housekeeper said, in what seemed to
be a pleasant, happy manner, “Hello, madam!” Well, hello to you too, and what
can I do for you, my dear?
It was that this moment that the blasted woman began wailing
loudly and screaming, “Madam, really bad news, madam!!” and then mumble things
incoherently in Bangla and really bad English. As she is somewhat prone to
drama, I decided to panic only moderately and so I started asking what exactly
had happened. The next sentence aged me 5 years, “Car bad accident, the children…oh,
madam!!!” accompanied by more severe wailing. My hair raising rapidly on the
back of my neck, I began shouting in my cell phone, asking her whether the kids
were ok (my Son carpools to school in our car with a neighboring child and her
small sister). All she kept doing was repeating something nonsensical about a
bad accident, and the children, and would not for the life of me answer if
everyone was OK. Since she was calling from my house, I quickly hung up on her,
grabbed the stunned Diplomat who was standing next to me, semi-yelled/mumbled in the direction of my Boss something about
having to go and flew out of the office amidst the deafening silence of the
room while my colleagues were listening to my conversation.
Outside the Embassy, we spotted a heavy bullet jeep (part of
the Embassy carpool) and threw ourselves in it, screaming at the poor driver
(turns out he was new and it was his first week) to take us home. He mumbled
something about having to wait for the Ambassador, but the Diplomat was having
none of it. In the longest 5 minutes of my life, we were outside our building and
burst inside our apartment, only to find an exhilarated Son who kept talking
about “the big bump” and my housekeeper who burst into tears the moment she saw
us. Turns out (as best as we can understand from two housekeepers and one
driver’s combined English and our shaky Bangla), my driver was driving towards
the school when one of the awesome local driver rammed into the left passenger
door of our car while making a left turn. The door was completely totaled, and
the 3 kids apparently flew inside the car because, of course, none of them were
strapped in. Which is my own damn fault.
The car spun out of control for a moment and then the driver
regained it and managed to stop. I feel pity for him – he was faced with a car
with 3 hysterically crying children, and 2 even more hysterical nannies. I
swear he was ready to quit on me. As luck would have it, our car was hit by a
driver and car belonging to the American International School of Dhaka, and by
the time we got to the scene of the accident, the school had already dispensed
its own transportation manager who in less than an hour had our car in the shop.
The whole incident taught me a few things:
1.
Strap your child in the car, whether or not
there are car seats.
2.
If you know that your staff is a drama queen, take
a deep breath and try to get the story out of her before you panic and decide
that your child is dead.
3.
Drive slowly in a country where pretty much no
one knows real traffic rules or how to drive for that matter.
4.
Send your nanny for English lessons.
